When women are killed by men, particularly by current or former partners, there is often a history that precedes the final act of violence. These histories are not random, and they are rarely without warning signs. One of the most significant, and most consistently identified, is stalking.
During National Stalking Awareness Week, it is important to recognise the role stalking can play in the lead-up to femicide. While not all stalking behaviour will escalate to this level, evidence from domestic homicide reviews and research continues to show a clear and repeated pattern: stalking is frequently present before a woman is killed.
These behaviours may not always be recognises for what they represent. Repeated contact, monitoring movements, attending locations uninvited, or refusing to respect boundaries can be interpreted as persistence or emotional distress following a relationship breakdown. In some cases, they are minimised or viewed in isolation. However, when understood in the context of femicide, these behaviours can indicate something far more serious like an ongoing attempt to maintain control, proximity, and access.
Femicide does not usually occur without context. It often follows a period of escalating behaviour, where boundaries are repeatedly challenged and risk increases over time. Stalking can form part of this escalation, particularly where the behaviour is persistent and resistant to intervention.
For those experiencing it, the impact is significant. It can create a sustained sense of fear and uncertainty, affecting daily life and decision-making. Many individuals take steps to reduce risk like changing routines or seeking support, yet the behaviour may continue. This persistence is one of the factors that makes stalking such an important indicator of potential harm.
Despite this, stalking is still not always recognised or responded to as a marker of high risk. When behaviours are considered individually, rather than as part of a pattern, opportunities for early intervention can be missed. This can mean that individuals are left managing ongoing risk without the level or response that the situation requires.
A greater awareness of the link between stalking and femicide is essential. Recognising stalking as a potential indicator of escalating risk allows for a more informed and proactive response. It supports earlier intervention, more accurate risk assessment, and a stronger understanding of the lived reality for those affected.
Understanding the link between stalking and femicide is not about creating alarm, but about recognising risk. When these patterns are taken seriously, there is greater opportunity to intervene, to support, and to prevent harm.
At Aurora New Dawn, we work with individuals who are experiencing stalking and understand the complexity of these situations. We see the impact not only in moments of crisis, but in ongoing management of safety and wellbeing. Our approach is grounded in recognising patterns of behaviour, understanding risk, and supporting individuals in a way that prioritises their safety, autonomy, and choice.
If you are experiencing stalking, or are concerned about someone else, support is available.
